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不求活的完美但求活的实在

    生命中出现的一切,都无法拥有,只能经历。深知这一点的人,就会懂得,无所谓失去,只是经过而已;亦无所谓失败,只是经验而已.用一颗浏览的心,去看待人生,一切得与失、隐与显,都是风景与风情。

    人往往就是如此,能够看到,却无法改变,能够倾诉,却无法释怀,当生活失去了光彩,目光也就变得木讷消沉。从眼眸深处透到心底,都是一片无边的空洞。憔悴黯然的日子,也就听不见鸟鸣,看不到阳光,丢不掉伤感,读不懂世界。

     人生在世,谁都不易,生活在外,谁都有泪。即使身受挫折,蒙受不白,也不要轻易放弃。就算人受伤害,心受打击,也不要刻意报复。因为,放弃意味着屈服,报复说明还在嫉恨。

    生活不是用来对立的,人生不是用来争斗的。将心比心,都能想通,以情换情,谁也明白。要懂得理解才能心安,包容才会心宽。人生有苦有乐,有得有失,有输有赢。苦了何人也不能苦了亲人。

    我们为着生活,为着自己,也为着亲人、朋友、爱人相互激励着,相互爱恋着,依靠着,于是我们才在生活里发现属于自己的价值,属于我们生活的一部分。
    总有一种心境,是你捉摸不透的天空;总有一份牵挂,是你欲求不来的幸福;也总有一份情感,是你日思夜想的眷念;遗憾有时候也是一种美丽,只要我们肯于等待。等有一天,你看到那捉摸不透的天空出现彩虹欲求不来的幸福遇上了邂逅。

    既然活着,就要活好。真正能够解脱你的,只能是你自己。生命是一片树叶,绿了枯了,必然;青春是一朵鲜花,开了谢了,天然;金钱是一班列车,进了出了,淡然;往事是一道风景,远了忘了,嫣然;事业是一场博弈,输了赢了,坦然;感情是一杯茶水,浓了淡了,自然。

    生活是一个漏斗,得了失了,怡然;生活有苦有甜,才叫完整;爱情有闹有和,才叫情趣;心情有悲有喜,才叫体会;日子有阴有晴,才叫自然;活着一定要有爱,有快乐,有梦想。人生, 不求活得完美,但求活得实在!

 


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